I heard on a podcast one day that 2021 actually sounds like ‘2020 won’. I chuckled because it’s true. The most unexpected thing happened in everyone’s lives in 2020. It never gets easy to expect the unexpected and I’ve lost a lot in 2020. But I’m glad I did, they were blocks in the way of my most authentic self.

In 2020, I lost $20,000 in an accident, I lost my grandmother and I lost my control. Yet, I needed to lose it all to stop living a life walking in comfort. Comfort drew me closer to fear everyday. Fear is the unknown, the uncomfortable feeling of doing or experiencing the unexpected. Queue in 2020, everything I didn’t expect happened. However, I have learned to follow my gut now, don’t wait for something unexpected to happen, take a leap. Because no matter how detailed my story of loss and unexpected events may be (which I’ll share later this year) the lessons we’re necessary.

Fear is paralyzing

Fear is a blockage

Fear is a negative thought

Fear is evil

Fear is immoral

Fear is not happy, nor joyful

Fear is bitter

Fear has no place in your life.

Your thoughts don’t have to revolve around fear, instead let the thoughts of fear pass and welcome all your strengths. Queue in peace.

The funny thing about fear is that everyone will experience it in their lifetime, embrace faith, peace, love and joy. Love yourself first.

Till next time,

Your Original Good Girl