own your relationship

You know how everyone says “hang out with other people that are in relationships,” “talk to other people in relationships to get better advice” “don’t hang out with singles” RME!… DONT DO ANY OF THAT! Your relationship with your partner has its own patent; it’s own formula. Your relationship is like no one else’s, nor…

Finding Closure after a breakup.

According to the Merriam Webster Dictionary Closure : an often comforting or satisfying sense of finality. : victims needing closure; also: something (such as a satisfying ending) that provides such a sense. I recently saw Tyler Perry’s movie Acrimony, starring Taraji P. Henson and I was scared. I was scared because there were so many…

Dating is tricky!

So I started dating a couple of months ago after leaving a long-term relationship and I’ve come to a few conclusions. Women get rejected too. I’m not who I used to be, I have a new vision of what love is. If it’s too good to be true then it is. Well here’s what happened,…

Get out of your head.

Get out of your head. I admit I overthink everything in my life, everything. I’ve been reading this phrase all winter long. Now it’s Spring, it’s a new season with the reason to let go of those worries, troubles, and fears. If there’s something you’ve been meaning to do, then do it. Don’t grow old…

Cookie Cut Love: Do you show the same emotions to everyone you date?

Disclaimer: This is based on personal experiences and opinion. We all know a cookie cutter is made to mold undefined dough into a defined cookie dough shape that we would like. And then we would create several cookies using the same exact mold. Maybe it’s because that’s how we like our cookies or that’s what…

Most annoying excuse ever!

“ALL MEN CHEAT” – Worse Excuse Ever – I’ve heard all kinds of excuses in my exclusive relationships. Yet the one I hate the most is ‘all men cheat’. Why is that an excuse for men to cheat? I’d like to believe all men don’t cheat. But that term has become a crutch for many…

3 Qualities of a Good Girl from a guy’s perspective!

So I asked a few guys their opinion on 3 top qualities of a good girl and here’s what they had to say. Guy 1: Good morals, ambition, loyalty Guy 2: 1. A giver: Shows love and appreciation without being prompted or being given something first. 2. A communicator: She is honest and vocal about…

To Break or Not? 5 reasons why you could use a break.

How many relationships have you found yourself in and needed to take a step away to gain clarity? Some may say “screw it I don’t want this anymore and let it all go”. Others stay and just deal. We often find that we put ourselves in redundant situations. But the main focus is to just…

I am Unfinished Business.

I don’t meet the normal basic standards of a woman and I cannot be measured by any scale. Do not grade me by the checks and balances that you use to calculate me. I am a woman. I am human. I have been created this way on purpose. My mind and body has changed from…

Welcome!

“Bad girls aint no good, and the Good girls ain’t no fun” Wale had every girl saying they we’re bad after that song. Too bad I’m the type of girl to keep it real, I’m Good, or at least I was. Welcome to Original Good Girl, where I’ll share what being a “good girl” has…