I used to believe that being a good person was enough for everything in life, enough in school, enough in my career, and certainly enough in all my relationships. But I understand now that being good is just the minimum of where our potential reaches. We don't want a minimum wage salary in our careers, … Continue reading Trust the Process!
“I could be calm right now. But I have been drinking tequila shots, my hormones are raging out of control, I’m emotional, I’m horny, and I don’t wanna hear about no go****n peas! Good night! Do you remember that scene with Jordan (Nia Long) in 'The Best Man' when she has waited hours for … Continue reading Love on the Brain
There are days like today when I don't want to engage with anyone at work, or with my friends or even with my family. And it doesn't stop there I have moments of not wanting to indulge in my hobbies like writing for instance. At this very moment, I don't feel excited enough to write … Continue reading Work in Progress!
July is Minority Mental Health Awareness Month. You are probably confused wondering why I've switched the topic from relationships to mental health. Well, it's been 1 year since I left a 7-year relationship and it has not been as easy and smooth as I thought it would be. And after starting my blog, I began … Continue reading July is Minority Mental Health Awareness Month.
You know how everyone says "hang out with other people that are in relationships," "talk to other people in relationships to get better advice" "don't hang out with singles" RME!... DONT DO ANY OF THAT! Your relationship with your partner has its own patent; it's own formula. Your relationship is like no one else's, nor … Continue reading own your relationship
According to the Merriam Webster Dictionary Closure : an often comforting or satisfying sense of finality. : victims needing closure; also: something (such as a satisfying ending) that provides such a sense. I recently saw Tyler Perry's movie Acrimony, starring Taraji P. Henson and I was scared. I was scared because there were so many … Continue reading Finding Closure after a breakup.